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Give me 21 days and I’ll help you stop shrinking, stop second guessing yourself and start showing up with real confidence in your everyday life. 

Hey queen, real talk...

You lack confidence because you’re not taking action.

I see you. You want to change. You keep thinking about posting, speaking up, backing yourself.

But you struggle to take the action required.

And I get it. Because only 8% of people actually follow through on the actions required to change their lives.

That’s why so many women stay stuck in the cycle of:

thinking about change → doubting → waiting → playing small

This is where that changes!

Meet Martha 👋

Just 21 days ago, Martha was stuck in the cycle of overthinking, people pleasing, and constantly putting herself last.

She knew she wanted to change but kept avoiding the actions that would actually build her confidence.

So for 21 days, she committed to showing up differently. She started saying no. Speaking up. Following through. Backing herself. And that changed everythinggggg!

Today, Martha trusts herself more deeply than ever before. She no longer needs everyone else’s approval to feel worthy. She takes up space unapologetically and finally feels like the woman she knew she could be.

This is what happens when you stop waiting for confidence and start building it through action...

WHAT IS THE '21 DAY CONFIDENCE BOOST? 🚀

This is a 3 week confidence program designed to help you finally follow through.

And let me be clear…

You might even be telling yourself “But I AM taking action”

But the action you’re taking isn't the action you need. You’re keeping busy. Overplanning. Overthinking. Doing the “easy” tasks while avoiding the things that would actually create change and move the needle in your life.

For 21 days, you’ll stop waiting to feel confident and start building confidence through daily action.

This is your starting point.

Every day, you’ll log into the portal, watch a short video, and action your daily checklist designed to help you:

🚀 back yourself more
🚀 stop overthinking
🚀 show up differently
🚀 speak with more confidence
🚀 trust yourself more deeply
🚀 take up space unapologetically
🚀 stop shrinking in your life

You’ll begin to notice the shift in how you walk, speak, think, and carry yourself.

Because confidence isn’t something you magically wake up with one day. It’s something you build through action.

You’ll also have the option to post inside our So Extra Sisterhood Facebook group for support, connection, and accountability because yep, there’s a sisterhood of women doing this alongside you 🧡

And halfway through the experience, you’ll join a Coaching session with Leesh inside Telegram where you’ll be able to ask questions, get coached and receive support around anything coming up for you throughout the program.

This is all about proving to yourself, through daily action, that you are capable of more than you think!

Just 21 days of showing up differently.

21 days that could change your life.

1% better every day.

Are you ready to break the cycle and start taking action?

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THIS IS FOR YOU IF: 🧡

✔ You want confidence but don’t know how to actually build it

✔ You’re sick of overthinking and ready to start seeing real change

✔ You keep getting in your own way and know you’re capable of more

✔ You’re tired of shrinking yourself and playing small

✔ You want to stop waiting and start showing up differently in your life

✔ You’re ready to back yourself, follow through, and take action

✔ You’re done waiting for “one day”

THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF: ❌

✘ You’re looking for a quick fix without taking action

✘ You want confidence, but aren’t willing to challenge yourself

✘ You’re committed to staying in your comfort zone

✘ You keep waiting to “feel ready” before you start

✘ You want change, but don’t want to follow through

✘ You’re expecting confidence to magically appear without doing the work


Imagine who you could become in 21 days if you actually followed through.

If you stopped waiting. Stopped shrinking.
Stopped abandoning yourself.

You don’t need another motivational quote or burst of energy. You need proof that you can trust yourself.

And that proof is built through action.

Imagine how your life would change if you:

✔ stopped second guessing yourself
✔ trusted your decisions
✔ followed through on the things you keep avoiding
✔ spoke up with confidence
✔ stopped caring so much what people think
✔ showed up fully as yourself
✔ backed yourself instead of waiting for validation

That’s the work we’ll do together over the next 21 days 🧡

HOW IT WORKS 🚀

DAILY VIDEOS
Every day you’ll unlock a video guiding you through exactly what to focus on and helping you shift the way you think, show up, and back yourself.

DAILY ACTION CHECKLISTS
Confidence is built through action, so every day you’ll complete practical actions designed to help you stop avoiding, follow through, and build real self trust in your everyday life.

SO EXTRA SISTERHOOD
Join a private community of women committing to 21 days of showing up differently together. This is your space for support, connection, accountability, and celebrating your wins.

COACHING SUPPORT
You’ll join a live Telegram coaching session where you can ask questions, get coached directly by Leesh and receive support around anything coming up for you throughout the challenge.

WHAT YOU’LL EXPERIENCE 🧡

Over the 21 days, you’ll begin noticing shifts in:

🧡 how you speak
🧡 how you carry yourself
🧡 how you make decisions
🧡 how you show up online
🧡 how much you trust yourself
🧡 how often you stop abandoning yourself

STARTS JUNE 1

Early access $21/week for 3 weeks 

Price increases May 28.

Give me 21 days. Show up. Follow through.

And I’ll show you what happens when you stop waiting for confidence and start building it.

You can keep waiting for confidence…

Or you can spend the next 21 days building it.

The choice is yours 🧡

Frequently Asked Questions

GOT Q's? I GOTCHU! 🫶

If the answer you need isn't below please email soextraelisha@gmail.com

Doors officially open on May 21st and the 21 Day Confidence Boost begins on June 1, 2026.

As soon as you join, you’ll receive all the details you need to get ready for Day 1 🧡


This experience is fully online, so you can join from anywhere in the world.

You’ll get access to the portal, daily videos, action checklists, the Sisterhood community, and live coaching support online.

You will be able to join until the 8th June latest, but because this is a live 21 day experience, joining on time is highly recommended so you can fully commit and go through it with the group.

This experience is self paced, so you can move through the content in a way that works for you.

The videos are simple, the actions are practical, and the goal is simply to do the best you can and keep showing up.

But I also want to be honest…

This experience WILL require commitment and action from you.

If you already know you’re not in a place to follow through, this may not be right for you.

Due to the digital nature of this experience, all payments are non refundable.