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Destination Self Love is calling queen.
Let me guess…
You’ve spent your whole life trying to fix, shrink, or hide your body and you’re exhausted.
Maybe you’ll see yourself in one or more of these archetypes:
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The Hidden Woman - You hide behind baggy clothes, thinking "If they don't see me, they can't judge me" But deep down, you know your fear of being seen is holding you back from living the life you desperately want.
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The Self-Inflictor - You stand in front of the mirror, saying, "Yuck, I can't believe I let myself go" as you obsess over every flaw. The constant comparison leaves you feeling unlovable, unworthy, and utterly exhausted.
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The Punishing Perfectionist - "Once I lose 10kgs then i'll be happy" you tell yourself, as you push through another diet or punishing workout. You believe controlling your body is the only way you'll ever feel good enough, but it only fuels your shame.
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The People-Pleasing Caretaker - You always say "yes" when you really mean"no". You are constantly overgiving in relationships while settling for less than you deserve. Your fear of rejection drives you to sacrifice your own needs for the sake of others.
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The Mean Girl -"Ugh, she really needs to lose weight, how can she be so confident looking like that?" you say as you mask your own insecurities by tearing others down. You feel lonely, misunderstood, and disconnected from the authentic relationships you crave.
Can you relate? I mean, it makes sense!
From a young age, you've been bombarded with messages that equate worth with appearance, which is why you have the belief that your value depends on how close you are to the narrow beauty standards that society has told you to conform to.
In today’s social media-driven world, it’s easy to fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others. You constantly measure your worth against filtered photos of celebrities and influencers and their curated lives, which makes you feel dissatisfied and unworthy in yours.
You think you have to have the "perfect" life that's portrayed in the media, which leads to extreme dieting and exercise.
This stems from a misguided belief that success and happiness are achieved only through controlling your body and image and when these standards are not met you're hit with a huge sense of guilt and shame.
I know you're exhausted and wishing there was a better way
And I want you to know there is!
INTRODUCING...

Imagine slipping into that bikini you’ve been dreaming of, feeling the sun kiss your skin as you walk confidently along the beach embracing every inch of your body.
You liberate yourself from the exhausting weight loss cycle, embracing the freedom in your mind where you don't give a fxck about what others say because for the first time in your life you actually feel fabulous in your body.
You let go of dieting and stepping on the scale, realising that your worth is a birthright and not tied to a size.
You find yourself in a healthy, loving relationship with the love of your life, where you are celebrated and respected for who you are.
You confidently establish boundaries with family and friends, saying "no" often, putting yourself first and no longer entertaining conversations that revolve around body shaming and comments about other people's sizes or appearances.
You stand in front of the mirror and admire your reflection, showering yourself with kind words and celebrating each curve and "imperfection" as a testament to your unique beauty.
Girlfriend, it's possible!
And I'm here to teach you how...
My message to you (press play)...
I want to be clear...
YOU DO NOT NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT TO BE HAPPY!
You’ve been taught to believe that everything will change when you lose weight, that only when you’re a size 10 you’ll be happy, successful, meet the partner of your dreams, the list goes on...
Queen, let me be very fxcking clear - this is the lie that’s kept you stuck.
Chasing weight loss like it’s the magic fix is the reason you’ve been going around in circles.
True self-love & confidence comes when you stop tying your worth to a number, and start to believe the power and worthiness that’s already within you.
When you work with me, you’ll stop questioning your worth and whether you are good enough.
We uncover the root cause of why you feel the way you do about your body and yourself.
We’ll dig deep into the beliefs and patterns that have held you back, reprogramming your mindset to create a legacy of self-love and embodied confidence.
You’ll be so consciously self aware of who it is you truly are and how valuable you are to the world that you will be so protective of where your energy goes, no longer entertaining conversations that have small minded narratives and diminish your worth.
The shame and guilt you’ve carried will dissolve, transforming your relationship with your body and your life for good.
"Leesh has taught me so much about understanding myself better and how to look after my own needs. She’s been super patient and supportive"
This Program IS NOT for you if:
- You’re looking for another quick-fix diet or toxic weight loss program.
- You’re focused solely on changing your body rather than changing your mindset.
- You’re not ready to commit to a deeper journey of self-love and body acceptance.
- You prefer temporary solutions instead of sustainable growth and healing.
- You’re not willing to do the inner work needed for lasting transformation.
BUT, if...
- You’ve tried countless toxic weight loss programs and are ready to stop the cycle.
- You want to free your mind from the constant pressure of dieting and body shame.
- You desire to love yourself fully, as you are, and feel confident in your own skin.
- You’re ready to embrace your true self and reclaim your birthright of worthiness.
- You’re committed to transforming your mindset, learning to appreciate your body, and cultivating self-love.
THEN YOU'RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE!
Meet Martha 👋
Just 21 days ago, Martha was stuck in the ‘People-Pleasing Caretaker’ cycle — always saying yes, putting everyone else first, and doubting her worth.
Today? She’s unrecognisable.
She now has the confidence to say no without guilt. She pours into her own cup first, unapologetically. And for the first time in a long time, she knows her worth isn’t tied to anyone else’s opinion.
She believed in herself more deeply than ever before…
And even she was shocked by how much she accomplished in just 3 weeks.
This is what happens when you commit to yourself.
This is the power of the work we do together!
"It was an emotional ride for me as there were moments where I felt so touched because I was finally being heard and understood. Leesh was always so kind and gentle and always assured me it was a safe space to share."
HERE'S WHAT'S INCLUDED WHEN YOU JOIN DESTINATION SELF LOVE:
Monthly Coaching Call: This is your live, intimate space to receive personalised guidance and real-time support. I’ll coach you through your unique challenges, help you break through old patterns, and guide you back to the truth of who you are. We’ll work on loving the woman in the mirror, owning your worth, and pouring deep care and compassion into your relationship with yourself. This is your safe space to be held, seen, and supported.
Quarterly Lesson/Focus Call: We’ll gather for a powerful live lesson based on what I know you most need in that season. Whether we’re unpacking limiting beliefs, shifting toxic self-talk, or anchoring into unshakable confidence, this call will meet you exactly where you are.
Through deep mindset work, you’ll learn to let go of what no longer serves you and step boldly into the woman you’re here to be.
No more second-guessing. No more shrinking.
Just power, presence, and unwavering self-worth.
Exclusive Destination Self Love Community: Inside our private community, you’ll be surrounded by like-minded queens who are also rewriting their stories, reclaiming their power, and choosing themselves. This is your space to connect, be witnessed, and grow alongside women who truly get it.
Library of Education: With 20+ binge-worthy lessons ready to go, you’ll have instant access to the tools, strategies, and insights that shift how you think, feel, and show up. Whether you’re building confidence, healing body shame, or anchoring into your worth, this is your self-love toolbox.
Priority Access To All Future Events/Programs: As a member, you’ll always get special access to new events, workshops, and offerings released during your time in this space.
🎁 BONUS! 21-Day Confidence Boost 🚀
To kickstart your journey, you’ll get instant access to the 21-Day Confidence Boost — a powerful bonus designed to activate your confidence from day one.
Each day, you’ll receive short, potent prompts, mindset shifts, and embodiment practices to reconnect you with your worth and help you start showing up like the woman you’re becoming. It’s the perfect way to build momentum and step boldly into this next chapter.
Over the 21 days, you’ll also explore how to:
Speak up and own your space
Get clear on your goals and take aligned action
Challenge limiting beliefs with practical tools
Start embodying your next-level self now!
"I now have a sense of direction, so much clarity in life and gained so much vital information in regards to business and self growth as well."
YOU READY?
LET'S DO THIS SIS! HERE'S YOUR INVESTMENT OPTIONS...
12 Month Upfront Investment
$3197
Monthly Call
Quarterly Lesson/Focus Call
Exclusive Community
Library of Education
Mobile App Access
Priority Access To All Future Events/Programs
12 Month Weekly Investment
$77
Monthly Call
Quarterly Lesson/Focus Call
Exclusive Community
Library of Education
Mobile App Access
Priority Access To All Future Events/Programs
12 Month Monthly Investment
$297
Monthly Call
Quarterly Lesson/Focus Call
Exclusive Community
Library of Education
Mobile App Access
Priority Access To All Future Events/Programs
Or you can work with me for 6 months...
6 Month Upfront Investment
$1997
Monthly Call
Quarterly Lesson/Focus Call
Exclusive Community
Library of Education
Mobile App Access
Priority Access To All Future Events/Programs
6 Month Weekly Investment
$97
Monthly Call
Quarterly Lesson/Focus Call
Exclusive Community
Library of Education
Mobile App Access
Priority Access To All Future Events/Programs
6 Month Monthly Investment
$367
Monthly Call
Quarterly Lesson/Focus Call
Exclusive Community
Library of Education
Mobile App Access
Priority Access To All Future Events/Programs
HERE'S WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF YOU DON'T DO THIS WORK
You’ll Stay Stuck in the Diet Cycle: Without addressing the root of your relationship with food and your body, you'll likely continue trying the next fad diet, cleanse, or fitness trend, hoping it will finally bring you happiness. This cycle keeps you stuck, constantly measuring your worth by the number on the scale, without realising that freedom and self-worth come from within, not from another weight loss attempt.
You’ll Keep Believing You’re Not Worthy: Those nagging thoughts of "I’m not good enough" or "I’ll be happy when I lose the weight" will persist, keeping you from truly loving and accepting yourself as you are. You’ll remain convinced that you need to change your appearance before you’re worthy of love, success, and fulfillment. These beliefs will impact every area of your life, making it difficult to embrace opportunities, enjoy relationships, or feel proud of your accomplishments.
Your Confidence Will Continue to Suffer: You will continue to hide behind baggy clothes, avoid social events, or decline opportunities because you’re afraid of being judged for your body. You'll shy away from being seen, heard, and valued because you feel undeserving of attention or praise. Without learning how to shift your mindset and grow your confidence, you’ll keep playing small, afraid to step out of your comfort zone and pursue the life you truly desire.
You’ll Keep Settling in Relationships: If you don't cultivate self-love, you'll likely continue attracting partners who don’t truly see or value you. You'll stay in relationships with people who treat you poorly, and you'll tolerate being disrespected by family and friends because you haven’t learned how to set boundaries and recognise your worth. You'll feel lonely, disconnected, and like you’re never truly appreciated for who you are.
Your Inner Critic Will Continue to Dominate: The harsh, negative voice in your head will still control your thoughts. You’ll keep picking apart your reflection in the mirror, criticising your body and appearance, and feeling like you’ll never measure up. This self-talk can become a constant drain on your energy and mental health, leaving you exhausted and unhappy. Without the tools to quiet your inner critic, you may never experience the peace and compassion that come from speaking kindly to yourself and embracing your "flaws" with love.
You’ll Continue to Miss Out on Life: By staying in the cycle of shame, self-criticism, and dieting, you’ll continue to miss out on moments of pure joy and connection. You’ll avoid taking pictures with friends, dread summer outings, and feel like an outsider in your own life. If you don’t take the step toward true self-love, you’ll keep holding yourself back from living fully - whether that’s wearing what you want, travelling the world, enjoying relationships, or simply waking up with peace in your heart.
ABOUT YOUR NEW COACH
Hey Sis, Kia Ora, Fakaalofa Lahi Atu & Welcome!
I’m sooo happy you’re here!
I'm Elisha Tamasi and I know what it’s like to feel unworthy in your own skin. To look in the mirror and not love what you see. For years, I believed I had to shrink, change, and prove myself to be worthy of love, happiness, and confidence. But through deep self-love and healing, I rewrote that story and now, I help other women do the same.
Today, I’m a life coach who specialises in self love and confidence, speaker, and podcast host but more than that, I’m someone who gets it. I’ve walked the path, and I’m here to walk it with you.
If you’re tired of hiding, doubting yourself, and chasing external validation, you’re in the right place.
You don’t have to do it alone anymore.
I'll help you feel confident, powerful, and completely at home in your body. You deserve that. You always have. 🧡
HERE'S WHAT SOME QUEENS WHO HAVE WORKED WITH ME HAVE TO SAY...
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If you're asking yourself "Is Destination Self Love right for me?"
I invite you to book a free clarity call with me, I'm here to answer all your questions.
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