DESTINATION SELF LOVE SCHOLARSHIPS ARE NOW OPEN!
Destination Self Love is calling queen.
Let me guessâŠ
Youâve spent your whole life trying to fix, shrink, or hide your body and youâre exhausted.
Maybe youâll see yourself in one or more of these archetypes:
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The Hidden Woman - You hide behind baggy clothes, thinking "If they don't see me, they can't judge me" But deep down, you know your fear of being seen is holding you back from living the life you desperately want.
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The Self-Inflictor - You stand in front of the mirror, saying, "Yuck, I can't believe I let myself go" as you obsess over every flaw. The constant comparison leaves you feeling unlovable, unworthy, and utterly exhausted.
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The Punishing Perfectionist -Â "Once I lose 10kgs then i'll be happy" you tell yourself, as you push through another diet or punishing workout. You believe controlling your body is the only way you'll ever feel good enough, but it only fuels your shame.
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The People-Pleasing Caretaker - You always say "yes" when you really mean"no". You are constantly overgiving in relationships while settling for less than you deserve. Your fear of rejection drives you to sacrifice your own needs for the sake of others.
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The Mean Girl -"Ugh, she really needs to lose weight, how can she be so confident looking like that?" you say as you mask your own insecurities by tearing others down. You feel lonely, misunderstood, and disconnected from the authentic relationships you crave.
Can you relate? I mean, it makes sense! Â
From a young age, you've been bombarded with messages that equate worth with appearance, which is why you have the belief that your value depends on how close you are to the narrow beauty standards that society has told you to conform to.
In todayâs social media-driven world, itâs easy to fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others. You constantly measure your worth against filtered photos of celebrities and influencers and their curated lives, which makes you feel dissatisfied and unworthy in yours.
You think you have to have the "perfect" life that's portrayed in the media, which leads to extreme dieting and exercise.
This stems from a misguided belief that success and happiness are achieved only through controlling your body and image and when these standards are not met you're hit with a huge sense of guilt and shame.
I know you're exhausted and wishing there was a better way
And I want you to know there is!
INTRODUCING...

Imagine slipping into that bikini youâve been dreaming of, feeling the sun kiss your skin as you walk confidently along the beach embracing every inch of your body.
You liberate yourself from the exhausting weight loss cycle, embracing the freedom in your mind where you don't give a fxck about what others say because for the first time in your life you actually feel fabulous in your body.
You let go of dieting and stepping on the scale, realising that your worth is a birthright and not tied to a size.
You find yourself in a healthy, loving relationship with the love of your life, where you are celebrated and respected for who you are.
You confidently establish boundaries with family and friends, saying "no" often, putting yourself first and no longer entertaining conversations that revolve around body shaming and comments about other people's sizes or appearances.
You stand in front of the mirror and admire your reflection, showering yourself with kind words and celebrating each curve and "imperfection" as a testament to your unique beauty.
Girlfriend, it's possible!
And I'm here to teach you how...
Weâre offering a limited number of scholarships for women ready to step fully into self love, confidence, and empowerment. Each scholarship grants full access to Destination Self Love â a $4,250 transformational program, completely free!
My message to you (press play)...
I want to be clear...
YOU DO NOT NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT TO BE HAPPY!
Youâve been taught to believe that everything will change when you lose weight, that only when youâre a size 10 youâll be happy, successful, meet the partner of your dreams, the list goes on...
Queen, let me be very fxcking clear - this is the lie thatâs kept you stuck.
Chasing weight loss like itâs the magic fix is the reason youâve been going around in circles.
True self-love & confidence comes when you stop tying your worth to a number, and start to believe the power and worthiness thatâs already within you.
When you work with me, youâll stop questioning your worth and whether you are good enough.
We uncover the root cause of why you feel the way you do about your body and yourself.
Weâll dig deep into the beliefs and patterns that have held you back, reprogramming your mindset to create a legacy of self-love and embodied confidence.
Youâll be so consciously self aware of who it is you truly are and how valuable you are to the world that you will be so protective of where your energy goes, no longer entertaining conversations that have small minded narratives and diminish your worth.
The shame and guilt youâve carried will dissolve, transforming your relationship with your body and your life for good.
"Leesh has taught me so much about understanding myself better and how to look after my own needs. Sheâs been super patient and supportive"
This Program IS NOTÂ for you if:
- Youâre looking for another quick-fix diet or toxic weight loss program.
- Youâre focused solely on changing your body rather than changing your mindset.
- Youâre not ready to commit to a deeper journey of self-love and body acceptance.
- You prefer temporary solutions instead of sustainable growth and healing.
- Youâre not willing to do the inner work needed for lasting transformation.
BUT, if...
- Youâve tried countless toxic weight loss programs and are ready to stop the cycle.
- You want to free your mind from the constant pressure of dieting and body shame.
- You desire to love yourself fully, as you are, and feel confident in your own skin.
- Youâre ready to embrace your true self and reclaim your birthright of worthiness.
- Youâre committed to transforming your mindset, learning to appreciate your body, and cultivating self-love.
THEN YOU'RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE!
Meet Martha đ
Just 21 days ago, Martha was stuck in the âPeople-Pleasing Caretakerâ cycle â always saying yes, putting everyone else first, and doubting her worth.
Today? Sheâs unrecognisable.
She now has the confidence to say no without guilt. She pours into her own cup first, unapologetically. And for the first time in a long time, she knows her worth isnât tied to anyone elseâs opinion.
She believed in herself more deeply than ever beforeâŠ
And even she was shocked by how much she accomplished in just 3 weeks.
This is what happens when you commit to yourself.
This is the power of the work we do together!
HERE'S WHAT'S INCLUDED WHEN YOU JOIN DESTINATION SELF LOVE:
Monthly Coaching Call: This is your live, intimate space to receive personalised guidance and real-time support. Iâll coach you through your unique challenges, help you break through old patterns, and guide you back to the truth of who you are. Weâll work on loving the woman in the mirror, owning your worth, and pouring deep care and compassion into your relationship with yourself. This is your safe space to be held, seen, and supported.
Lesson/Focus Call: Weâll gather for a powerful live lesson based on what I know you most need in that season. Whether weâre unpacking limiting beliefs, shifting toxic self-talk, or anchoring into unshakable confidence, this call will meet you exactly where you are.
Through deep mindset work, youâll learn to let go of what no longer serves you and step boldly into the woman youâre here to be.
No more second-guessing. No more shrinking.
Just power, presence, and unwavering self-worth.
Exclusive Destination Self Love Community: Inside our private community, youâll be surrounded by like-minded queens who are also rewriting their stories, reclaiming their power, and choosing themselves. This is your space to connect, be witnessed, and grow alongside women who truly get it.
Library of Education: With 20+ binge worthy lessons ready to go, youâll have instant access to the tools, strategies, and insights that shift how you think, feel, and show up. Whether youâre building confidence, healing body shame, or anchoring into your worth, this is your self love toolbox.
Priority Access To All Future Events/Programs: As a member, youâll always get special access to new events, workshops, and offerings released during your time in this space.
All scholarship recipients receive full access to this life changing program at no cost. You get the transformation, support, and tools to step into self love and confidence without paying a cent.
đ BONUS! 21-Day Confidence Boost đ
To kickstart your journey, youâll get instant access to the 21-Day Confidence Boost â a powerful bonus designed to activate your confidence from day one.
Each day, youâll receive short, potent prompts, mindset shifts, and embodiment practices to reconnect you with your worth and help you start showing up like the woman youâre becoming. Itâs the perfect way to build momentum and step boldly into this next chapter.
Over the 21 days, youâll also explore how to:
Speak up and own your space
Get clear on your goals and take aligned action
Challenge limiting beliefs with practical tools
Start embodying your next-level self now!
"I now have a sense of direction, so much clarity in life and gained so much vital information in regards to business and self growth as well."
HERE'S WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF YOU DON'T DO THIS WORKÂ
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Youâll Stay Stuck in the Diet Cycle:Â Without addressing the root of your relationship with food and your body, you'll likely continue trying the next fad diet, cleanse, or fitness trend, hoping it will finally bring you happiness. This cycle keeps you stuck, constantly measuring your worth by the number on the scale, without realising that freedom and self-worth come from within, not from another weight loss attempt.
Youâll Keep Believing Youâre Not Worthy:Â Those nagging thoughts of "Iâm not good enough" or "Iâll be happy when I lose the weight" will persist, keeping you from truly loving and accepting yourself as you are. Youâll remain convinced that you need to change your appearance before youâre worthy of love, success, and fulfillment. These beliefs will impact every area of your life, making it difficult to embrace opportunities, enjoy relationships, or feel proud of your accomplishments.
Your Confidence Will Continue to Suffer:Â You will continue to hide behind baggy clothes, avoid social events, or decline opportunities because youâre afraid of being judged for your body. You'll shy away from being seen, heard, and valued because you feel undeserving of attention or praise. Without learning how to shift your mindset and grow your confidence, youâll keep playing small, afraid to step out of your comfort zone and pursue the life you truly desire.
Youâll Keep Settling in Relationships: If you don't cultivate self-love, you'll likely continue attracting partners who donât truly see or value you. You'll stay in relationships with people who treat you poorly, and you'll tolerate being disrespected by family and friends because you havenât learned how to set boundaries and recognise your worth. You'll feel lonely, disconnected, and like youâre never truly appreciated for who you are.
Your Inner Critic Will Continue to Dominate:Â The harsh, negative voice in your head will still control your thoughts. Youâll keep picking apart your reflection in the mirror, criticising your body and appearance, and feeling like youâll never measure up. This self-talk can become a constant drain on your energy and mental health, leaving you exhausted and unhappy. Without the tools to quiet your inner critic, you may never experience the peace and compassion that come from speaking kindly to yourself and embracing your "flaws" with love.
Youâll Continue to Miss Out on Life:Â By staying in the cycle of shame, self-criticism, and dieting, youâll continue to miss out on moments of pure joy and connection. Youâll avoid taking pictures with friends, dread summer outings, and feel like an outsider in your own life. If you donât take the step toward true self-love, youâll keep holding yourself back from living fully - whether thatâs wearing what you want, travelling the world, enjoying relationships, or simply waking up with peace in your heart.
"It was an emotional ride for me as there were moments where I felt so touched because I was finally being heard and understood. Leesh was always so kind and gentle and always assured me it was a safe space to share."
ABOUT YOUR NEW COACH
Hey Sis, Kia Ora, Fakaalofa Lahi Atu & Welcome!
Iâm sooo happy youâre here!
I'm Elisha Tamasi and I know what itâs like to feel unworthy in your own skin. To look in the mirror and not love what you see. For years, I believed I had to shrink, change, and prove myself to be worthy of love, happiness, and confidence. But through deep self love and healing, I rewrote that story and now, I help other women do the same.
Today, Iâm a life coach who specialises in self love and confidence, speaker, and podcast host but more than that, Iâm someone who gets it. Iâve walked the path, and Iâm here to walk it with you.
If youâre tired of hiding, doubting yourself, and chasing external validation, youâre in the right place.
You donât have to do it alone anymore.
I'll help you feel confident, powerful, and completely at home in your body. You deserve that. You always have. đ§Ą
HERE'S WHAT SOME QUEENS WHO HAVE WORKED WITH ME HAVE TO SAY...
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